“Like Zadoorian’s earlier novels--Second Hand, The Leisure Seeker and Beautiful Music—this new novel brims with wit, passion and soul.” -THE MILLIONS, one of The Millions’ Most Anticipated Books of 2020
“In The Narcissism of Small Differences, Michael Zadoorian writes with smart, skewering accuracy about relationships and midlife, about the costs of irony and complacency, and about how change comes for all of us, whether we’re ready for it or not. Zadoorian’s humor does that rare thing: packs a punch even as it moves us to sympathy and emotional connection. With Detroit as his steady muse and memory palace, Zadoorian is a writer of consequence in full command of his gifts.” -Paula McLain, author of The Paris Wife and Love and Ruin
“Zadoorian’s comedy of contemporary manners resonates by virtue of its introspective characters and depictions of the small moments in life that, taken together, have great significance. Piquantly titled chapters (‘Out Come the Freaks’) provide additional comic snap. Zadoorian’s subtle, timely story hits the mark.” -PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
“The Narcissism of Small Differences asks big questions and delivers big answers but not without wit, taste, and style. A snapshot of a modern relationship, all messiness included. There’s nobody better than Michael Zadoorian at unearthing the beauty in ruins, the truth in jest, youth in aging. In a literary landscape where most are hell-bent on outplotting their peers, he has sculpted a thriller from everyday life. For this, it’s my most cherished book of the year.” -Josh Malerman, author of Bird Box
“[Zadoorian’s] message—that as we get older, it’s okay to reimagine our lives and maybe even sell out a little, as long as we stay true to our authentic selves—is earnest. And a side plot that takes Joe through some grand theaters of yesteryear, now dangerously decrepit, provides moments of genuine poignancy.” -BOOKLIST “For anyone who’s ever asked themselves, ‘Am I weird?’ Michael Zadoorian has the answer: ‘Of course you are. That’s the whole idea.’ While everyone is trying so hard to act normal, The Narcissism of Small Differences revels in its own weirdness.”-Ben Folds, New York Times best-selling author/singer-songwriter
“Detroit in 2009 is depicted as a place whose glory days are behind it and whose future is uncertain. Ana and Joe are neither fortune-seeking gentrifiers nor grizzled veterans, and their need to find a specific place where they belong makes for some of this novel’s most affecting moments . . . [This novel’s] empathy and lived-in qualities are both appealing.” -KIRKUS REVIEWS
“The Narcissism of Small Differences is at once an intimate portrait of contemporary Detroit, a comedy of manners in modern marriage, and an honest depiction of the difficult choices—professional, creative, economic—many of us make while under the vise grip of late capitalism. The novel proposes that, while stuck in the craw of late empire, the very least we can do is keep an open heart. I laughed and winced equally in recognition. Michael Zadoorian is to Detroit what Stuart Dybek is to Chicago: a seer, even when the seeing hurts.”-Sally Franson, author of A Lady’s Guide to Selling Out
“[A] warm, surprisingly playful novel about middle-age crisis . . . Zadoorian’s obvious affection for Detroit, along with his enthusiasm for his characters’ pursuit of meaningful lives, makes this a very enjoyable read.”-LIBRARY JOURNAL
“Simmering beneath the humor and irony of this story is a poignant quest for meaning and authenticity in a postmodern world that supposedly holds all the answers. Michael Zadoorian is a deft, thoughtful, and intelligent writer who has deep compassion and understanding for the human condition, and his humility and humanity infuse every page. I loved this book.” -Michael Imperioli, Sopranos star and author of The Perfume Burned His Eyes
“What Zadoorian succeeds with here, as he has consistently done, is create characters who are believably flawed and believably endearing, even charismatic in their own awkward ways—so much so that you enjoy spending time with them on each page.” -Ideas Adrift
“Against the backdrop of a crumbling Detroit, Zadoorian’s prose sparkles and shimmers, infusing this love ballad of a novel with humor and light. Zadoorian is a writer who hears music everywhere and in everything, a writer who turns the act of reading into something as lush as a concert, as intimate as a mixtape.”-Nickolas Butler, author of Shotgun Lovesongs
“Zadoorian’s comedy of manners gently and lovingly mocks and ridicules a generation that has grown up on irony . . . Zadoorian’s writer’s heart, however, is too true to reduce his characters to caricatures. At their cruelest and most smart-alecky, their creator never loses sight—nor does he allow his reader to lose sight—of their essential humanity and the tender vulnerability lying beneath the shiny surface.”-Books in Northport (Dog Ears Books blog)
“A masterful storyteller and prose stylist, Michael Zadoorian doesn’t disappoint with The Narcissism of Small Differences, a smart, briskly paced novel set in 2009 Detroit about an aging hipster and his more responsible mate struggling to keep their relationship from veering down the same path as their crumbling, economically wrecked city." -Donald Ray Pollock, author of The Devil All the Time
“Michael Zadoorian writes his characters with wit, humor, and compassion—clearly, he loves them, and the warmth shines through.” -Mira T. Lee, author of Everything Here Is Beautiful
“It’s been a while since I’ve read a book that nailed the mind-set of a generation like Michael Zadoorian has in The Narcissism of Small Differences. His study of an ordinary couple navigating a culture where nothing matters, to discover something that really does, is remarkable.” -Luke Sullivan, author of Hey Whipple, Squeeze This
“The journey is classic Zadoorian, filled with lots of Detroit-iana, classic asides, and two heroes you can’t help but root for.” -Boswell Book Company, staff pick by Daniel Goldin
“‘You shut up and went to work because people were counting on you,’ writes Michael Zadoorian in The Narcissism of Small Differences. This is perhaps the best description ever of the Detroit attitude, exemplified by protagonists Joe and Ana, a couple at the crossroads, utterly compelling as they try to move up—and stay together—in the world’s most blue-collar city. Zadoorian’s glittering prose will often make you laugh, but it’s his gusto and unfailing eye that pull at your heart in this fantastic novel.” -Scott Lasser, author of Say Nice Things About Detroit
“When you have spent a life living apart from the mainstream, carving out a niche of artful individualism, it’s good to find that you are not alone after all. Michael Zadoorian’s The Narcissism of Small Differences shows you that there are kindred souls in all the cities of the world who struggle with the same failures and successes. It’s like discovering your family.” -Sven Kirsten, author of The Book of Tiki